Excuse me / I'm sorry / Thank you – The all-purpose polite phrase
JLPT N5 文法 すみません 解説
⏱️ Study time: 5–7 minutes
Master すみません in 5–7 minutes. Learn the most versatile Japanese word — used for apologizing, getting attention, thanking, and more — and how it differs from ごめんなさい and ありがとう.
Q1: You want to call a waiter. Which is correct?
A. すみません!
B. ごめんなさい!
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すみません is the single most versatile polite phrase in Japanese. It can mean "Excuse me", "I'm sorry", or even "Thank you" depending on the situation. It literally means "it's not finished/settled" (from 済む = to finish), implying you owe someone thanks or an apology.
| Use | Meaning | Situation |
|---|---|---|
| Getting attention | Excuse me! | Calling a waiter, asking for directions |
| Apologizing | I'm sorry | Light apology for bumping into someone |
| Thanking | Thank you (for the trouble) | When someone does you a favor |
| Refusing politely | No thank you | Declining an offer gracefully |
The most common pattern: すみません + question.
For deeper apologies, use 申し訳ありません (formal) or ごめんなさい (personal).
すみません softens the request, making it more polite.
| Expression | Primary Use | Tone |
|---|---|---|
| すみません | Excuse me / Sorry / Thanks | Polite, versatile, all-purpose |
| ごめんなさい | I'm sorry (personal apology) | Personal, heartfelt |
| ありがとう | Thank you | Gratitude, less apologetic |
1. "Excuse me, where is the toilet?" (getting attention)
2. "I'm sorry I broke your cup." (personal apology)
3. "Thank you for the gift!" (pure gratitude)
This lesson is taught by Anup Sensei, an experienced Japanese language instructor at Gogaku Language & Training Center in Pokhara. He has studied and worked in Japan and specializes in practical JLPT preparation and real-life communication skills.
Yes, when someone does something for you that caused them trouble, saying すみません acknowledges that trouble while expressing thanks. It's very common.
It's polite. For very formal situations, use 申し訳ありません (apology) or 失礼します (excuse me). Casual version: すまない (male speech).
すいません is a more casual, slurred pronunciation of すみません. It's common in casual conversation but すみません is the standard form.
Now learn the personal apology:
ごめんなさい (gomen nasai) – I'm sorry
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